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Sunday, 11 January 2009

Thursday, 08 January 2009

  • New Year's Resolutions

    I don't usually make them. When you have enough circumstances fly beyond your control, it tends to silence the Oprah in you.

    But I feel pretty comfortable with this one: I'm not matching any socks or folding any tee shirts. Both are stressful to me. I decided that it wasn't worth it after doing a million and a half loads of laundry. Everyone can do their own if they want. Josh already does. He even does right and left matching socks. That's how different we are in the laundry category. My philosophy is cold water. Everything in. A basket for sockets. A pile for tee shirts.

Saturday, 03 January 2009

  • Evan Quote of the Day

    "Candy is like medicine for your mind. It makes you feel better. Because when you're sick, your mind is sick"

    Children are profound. Even when they are trying to wrangle candy from you. And when the next words out their mouths are about pirates. Dostoevsky said our healing is in the children. I don't know if anyone has said candy is healing to the mind. But plenty of people have eaten to it.

Friday, 02 January 2009

  • Love in the Time of Cholera

    Just went you thought the vomiting was over. No. I couldn't even keep down ice chips. Plus my usual fever was almost 103. And laying in bed does nothing for arthritis except make it worse.

    This is the second time in a row during Josh's vacation we've all gotten sick. I feel bad for him. He's been really great. He really has. Evan got sick last night...and I didn't have to do anything. I slept 12 hours and feel so much better.

    Oh, did it bring back the memories. Some people look back on painful times with nostalgia. Which I do not. That mouth-watering queasiness...I had forgotten how bad it is and how much I never want to go through that again. No matter how stinkin' cute those babies are.

    I remember hearing Joni Erickson Tada speak on time and she talked about how people would say how her wheelchair was a blessing etc...because it gave her this opportunity to speak. She would reply "I'm looking forward to the day when it will burn in hell".




Tuesday, 30 December 2008

  • I Will Never Do This Again

    Is what I say every time we travel. And I have yet to make one trip in the past four years without someone vomiting. Oh, the joys of one child exclusively breastfeeding (two big trips before Evan was 6 months old).

    It was a good trip. The kids did great. They really did. Our flight was canceled and we spent three hours in the XNA airport, but Josh spotted Lane and Kanyon with his eagle eye. It does a heart good to see old friends who are happy. Brooklyn suits them well.

    If you know my kids, you know that they are not exactly the ones that doze off in Wal-Mart. Or on flights. Or in cars. Or generally unless you threaten them with unpleasant things if they get out of bed one more time. We arrived well after midnight and they were playing chase around the luggage carousels.

    We went to Bristol, TN think: Nascar, to see my mom's side of the family. My cousin is moving to Turkey with his wife and everyone was there to see him off. I counted 26 different kinds of sweets. The bourbon fudge was my favorite gluten-free treat. And the virginia ham...salty and sweet...you can't beat it. 

    You can however, puke it. Which is what Lucy did half the time we were there. I am grateful to not have lived my worst nightmare of everyone puking ON a plane. Josh is sick and Lucy is still sick. But we dodged the worst of it between flights.

    Some quotes from Lucy on the way back home (she still didn't sleep even though she was sick)

    " GET ME OUTTA HERE". As we waited the short eternity for them to open the door to the jetway. It got a few chuckles around us. Which of course, was their mistake. Give a toddler a laugh, and what do you have? 20 million repetitions...get me outta here...get me outta here...with the grand pause waiting for someone to laugh. After the third time, it's just not funny. Try explaining that to a 2 year old. The anthem changed to: I will NOT shush!!

    "I'M GOING TO BE A PILOT" Not, I want to be a pilot. I'm going to be a pilot. Is what she said as they waved goodbye.

    " LOOK MAMMA! HE HAS A YI-HA (a cowboy hat) JUST LIKE ME". Said about an Orthodox Jewish man with a big hat and a New York accent walking in the Memphis airport. It was a lesson in irony.

    " I NEED A PINK SPIDERMAN"

    Evan got everything spiderman there could be. He was pleased to say the least. He was really sweet and good the whole trip.
     



    And no that's not a bruise on her neck. It's magic marker. We drew like a 100 pictures.

    And backtracking a bit, we spent Christmas Eve and Christmas day with Grandpa and Granny. And Poppy was dressed up as well.


    Sadly, Evan did not get that puppy he's wanted. He'd even settle for a cat. I don't think I could even handle a gold fish at this point. But he did have a good time with Grandpa and Granny and got some fun presents.

    And finally, my sister volunteered to take the month of January off from her pharmacy school rotations and is going to stay with the kids at night while Josh and I take my much-dreaded trip to Mayo. It is a huge relief to me to have all the major things set. She has no idea what she's signed up for but there will be lots of bedtime help from vetern grandparents and friends.




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  • I started this blog when I was puking my guts out in my second pregnancy. The only that smelled good to be was nectarines. Vomit continues to be a common theme as well as mystery illnesses. Right now, they think I have Still's Disease. Despite what you might think reading this blog, I do love God, my husband, and my kids. And not only love them--like them. My world is very small here. There is a very big world out there. I like to rant about lots of things...and I am the confessed narcissist here. This blog is about me and what I think and feel. Some of you think I'm brave. Some of you think I'm foolish. Some of you this blog drives crazy but you read it anyway. But please remember this. It's not about you. It's about me.

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